Like it a bit rough? Your boyfriend’s locked up and completely under your control. Furthermore, you are not you, so you can try anything you want in the bedroom! But remember: you’re boyfriend is not himself either, so be open to what he wants to suggest too. If you have been with your partner for a long time, this is a great way to keep the excitement alive in your relationship. This fantasy gets the butterflies stirring as you start to remember why you were attracted to each other in the first place. And then there’s only one question: your place or his? Making eye contact across the bar, you eventually go and talk to each other as if this is the first time you’ve ever met. Flirt a little with other people to drive each other wild with jealousy (but don’t get carried away: the point is to still go home with your own partner at the end of the evening). Not a fake moustache or anything weird, just a little something sultry. Then, arrive separately at the same bar wearing something that you wouldn’t normally wear. Make sure you don’t see each other all day. Maybe he can attempt a sexy lift if he’s feeling strong, but make sure he’s not covered in baby oil at the time, we’re not trying to cause an embarrassing trip to A&E here, ladies.ĥ. Everyone’s a winner! With you in the hot seat, however, it’s a fun role reversal which could end up being very sexy indeed. It’ll be a great confidence boost for you, and he gets a good look at every part of your body.
For you as the stripper, you get a feeling of ultimate control, whilst his inability to touch you will drive him crazy. You’ll be doin’ it quicker than you can say “Jamie Lee Curtis in True Lies”. Get that baby oil ready and throw some dollas at him, as long as he promises to fish them out of his pants and give it back to you post-coitus - we’re not made of money, right? Or alternatively, you could put your finest underwear on, give him the chair and have a ‘no touching’ policy as you writhe around him. Sit in a chair as he bumps and grinds around you to Genuine’s ‘Pony’. Get your boyfriend to channel his inner Magic Mike by playing the part of your own personal stripper. A sadomasochistic relationship means putting a huge amount of trust in each other, which is sexy in its own right.ģ.
And whilst the dominant is essentially in charge, they can only go as far as the submissive will allow. By purposely exposing themselves to pain, masochists can trigger these sublime sensations on demand." It is important to remember that being a submissive doesn’t mean that you are or have to be weak: the physical pain is a small part of it. In response to impact or injury, the body produces natural ‘painkilling’ chemicals called endorphins. Alix tells us, "there are proven physical explanations for why pain can equal pleasure. But don’t forget to have a safe word! Alix tells us that a safe word is crucial to ensuring that both you and your lover can relax, safe in the knowledge that you’ve established a clear way to stop play if things get too overwhelming for either of you. It’s a fun one to play around with, testing your sexual boundaries. Sexual dominance isn’t just for damaged millionaires: you or your partner can choose to be the Dominant with the other being the Submissive.
This is a great role play for those who want to take a trip into kinkier territory in the bedroom. The Fifty Shades effectĭ/s relationships have made a massive comeback after the rise of E.L James' Fifty Shades franchise. And, as your partner is now the repairman/lover, the thought that your ‘husband’ could come home any second leaves you with the thrill of being discovered.
This kind of fantasy can help to keep your long-term, monogamous relationship from feeling too monotonous, Alix advises. He can fix stuff that we can’t be bothered to learn to fix. Someone who can help you at your time of need. It’s someone different, someone who isn’t your partner. There are many erotic aspects that come into play with this one. To make this fantasy super haaat, lean over him as he checks your drum, whispering seductively “is that the spinny bit?” It’ll drive him crazy. Perhaps you’re the bored, sex-starved housewife whose washing machine has packed up, and he’s the hot plumber that’s come to, ahem, fix your little problem. The repairman scenario is an absolute classic.
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